Soul Mate

People think meeting your soul mate is all rainbows and butterflies. But your soul mate 
is sent to complete your life, to bring balance to your extremes and help you to grow 
into a stronger version of yourself.

Transition is difficult and uncomfortable as you shed parts of the old you and move onto 
your new level of being. It's not one sided as both partners are there to improve each 
other... 
Yin and Yang.

Newly married couples will tell you that moving in together for the first time can at times
be difficult as you transition into changes that best accommodates the co-existence of 
both lives.

Media has given us the idea that a soul mate connection is all blissful and magical. They 
rarely show the hard work that goes into a happily ever after. We are told that when two
people are made for each other everything just fits perfectly with no work and no 
discomfort.  Actually we are told that if it feels hard then it isn't meant to be.

But two identical pieces cannot fit into each other. They can reflect each other perfectly 
and see themselves in each other but to fit together to become more that their 
individual selves will result in no growth. Two of the same puzzle pieces won't fit into 
each other.

Yin and Yang are opposites relative to each 

other. They have a little of each other within 
but majority is the opposite. When they join 
together they fit and even though so very 
opposite a balance is formed and they 
become what they are meant to be....
complete.

Unfortunately many have already met their 
Yin or Yang but are still searching because they were never clear on what they should 
truly be looking for.                       
     Leandra